tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post1592327458488646745..comments2023-08-07T07:17:50.739-07:00Comments on One Step At A Time: Controlling What I Can ControlHeidihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14349360501591800990noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post-83293065868296371562009-11-18T13:29:51.421-08:002009-11-18T13:29:51.421-08:00How sweet of your mom to post when she is going th...How sweet of your mom to post when she is going through what she is. You come from an amazing family Heidi. My dad had colon cancer 13 years ago. They did surgery within days of the diagnosis and then the chemotherapy route. It wasn't easy for him and it wasn't easy for any of his family but we pulled together and he came through it with flying colours as I'm sure your mom will too. If she's even half as tough as you are, she will be okay.<br /><br />I feel for you Heidi. Sounds like the stress is getting to you physically. Keep eating small stuff even if you aren't hungry.<br /><br />We're all rooting for you Heidi. You've got the right attitude. Control what you can control. (((hugs)))OldGoogleAccounthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17751024115173996573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post-74670715844120402132009-11-18T12:25:25.965-08:002009-11-18T12:25:25.965-08:00OH my goodness, I had the same full feeling all we...OH my goodness, I had the same full feeling all weekend even though I would hardly eat. It was bizarre. Maybe it's your bodies way of dealing with stress.<br /><br />Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers!Missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00364279577538257080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post-45251332674577709552009-11-18T06:57:30.342-08:002009-11-18T06:57:30.342-08:00Heidi that's really a lot what's going on ...Heidi that's really a lot what's going on in your life right now. I know how you must feel about your mom, my dad had cancer.<br /><br />Focus on the things you can control and the rest is prayers and hoping that everything will turn out right.Franhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10287705328335828286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post-90620312645200703542009-11-17T20:29:00.097-08:002009-11-17T20:29:00.097-08:00You are stress and sick to your stomach. Stop forc...You are stress and sick to your stomach. Stop force feeding. You will make it through this, and your body will ask you for those extra calories when it's ready for 'em.<br /><br />Find some peace in your day, be it a 5 min walk, pulling a square foot of weeks, or meditation. You will come through all this!Dr Wednesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10338912578096214106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post-27908161738039860422009-11-17T19:30:48.724-08:002009-11-17T19:30:48.724-08:00Just as an aside note to my medical problems is th...Just as an aside note to my medical problems is that the first gyne told me that having diabetes type 11 is also a good indicator of getting uterine cancer, which you know that I have had for 10 years. I didn't know that fact! Anyway, dear daughter, I know you will get all the bookkeeping done and you are determined with your excercise and weight control. You are one determined cookie. It will all work out for you and for me. If you carry on like you are your chances of getting diabeties will be greatly reduced. It will all be ok We will make it through. WE ARE TOUGHAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post-47389446597379588102009-11-17T19:25:05.656-08:002009-11-17T19:25:05.656-08:00Yuck! That's the best way to sum it up really....Yuck! That's the best way to sum it up really. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate, most of which is rather unpleasant. I'm so glad that they think they got all the cancer. That's really positive news. <br /><br />All you can keep doing is putting one foot in front of the other. I often feel stressed because of my husband's past cancer diagnosis. Someone once told me that all the worry in the world will not change the outcome. And while it sucks to feel helpless, it's the truth. Keep the faith. That's one thing that no one can take away.Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10527183101199737552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post-14402743142846767712009-11-17T17:06:18.489-08:002009-11-17T17:06:18.489-08:00Oh my. That's a lot for anyone to handle. Ju...Oh my. That's a lot for anyone to handle. Just think, it can only go up from here. Good luck with everything and just take it one step at a time.Lynseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03507533830687139382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post-90354019798939217412009-11-17T16:13:03.115-08:002009-11-17T16:13:03.115-08:00Hang in there ! Things can and will get better !I ...Hang in there ! Things can and will get better !I agree with Syl, take a deep breath , and take one step at a time, one task at a time.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09593000124585070362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586065529903110679.post-47073848291204050312009-11-17T15:16:39.021-08:002009-11-17T15:16:39.021-08:00Oh Heidi, that's alot for anyone to take! My ...Oh Heidi, that's alot for anyone to take! My goodness girl, I'm suprised you are still worried about eating.<br /><br />I have often been told we are not dealt what we can't handle and I can't tell you how much i hate that saying! <br /><br />The only advice I can give you is your own:<br />take things one step at a time, one foot infront of the other. it can only get better from here.<br /><br />I'm so sorry to hear about your mom and hubby. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers.<br />xoxo<br />SylSylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08406188835168172211noreply@blogger.com